Parent-led (AKA elimination communication)
This is about introducing the potty early, often from baby age, by watching and reacting to your child’s natural cues. It's about gently guiding your child, and encouraging regular potty use based on timing, signals, and routines. Many parents find that being proactive in this way can help their child become aware of their body's signals sooner.
Signs that your baby or toddler may need to go include:
- Facial expressions or body language (squirming, grunting, sudden stillness)
- Pausing during play or becoming restless
- Tugging at their nappy or looking uncomfortable
- Regular times of day when they tend to go (e.g., after meals or naps)
How to try parent-led potty training:
- Offer the potty at predictable times (after naps, meals, or before bath time).
- Use cue sounds (e.g., a "pss pss" noise when they wee) to help them associate the action with the potty.
- Allow them to go nappy-free when possible to help them recognize the sensation of needing to go.
- Keep it low-pressure and praise every effort.
Child-led potty training
This approach focuses on waiting until your child shows signs of readiness and takes the lead. It often happens between 18 months and 3 years. When a child is ready, they will begin to recognise their body's signals and show an interest in using the potty.
How to try child-led potty training:
If your child shows two or more of these signs, you may want to begin the process:
- They can stay dry for up to 2 hours or during a nap.
- They tell you when they need to go.
- They copy your behaviour and follow you to the bathroom.
- They show independence, like pulling down their pants or wanting to do things on their own.
- They dislike feeling wet and ask to be changed.